Today would be my grandpa Alfred Charles Denis Budd’s birthday if he were still alive. He is the most influential male in my life. He was always there for us growing up.
Recently, I have been reminded of my grandpa and other loved one’s absence by my colleagues’ losses. Mark Jaquith’s sister Mary passed away much, much to early and Matt Thomas’ grandmother, still with spark, passing away.
John Halcyon Styn, a person I admire greatly for his energy, helped me with 
grandpa update – march 23 (hospital) by reminding us of the new life that is continuously entering our lives. Many of Julia and my friends have babies. Life is amazing!
Days after that post, Halcyon’s grandfather, the inspirational Caleb (Rev. Shikles) of HugNation became a butterfly.
